I don't believe in censorship. I don't want to purchase from German Censor-Nazis that would close down my site for correctly labeling them German Censor-Nazis. I don't want to purchase from a man who has to close his eyes when women take off their shoes. If possible (nice to have) I don't even want to be under threat of DMCA take-down (where you are guilty until proven innocent and have everything to fear if your have a parody or your users post violating content against your terms). VPS should be cheap and hopefully run Ubuntu (or VMWare). Another nice to have would be terms which don't allow the account to be closed for any reason at any time. The biggest problem I need to fight against is take-down when I personally have done nothing wrong. I have no more control over my users than any other site. I can tell them not to do something until I am blue in the face but I won't know until after the fact. I cannot review every post personally before it is put up. Imagine if google.com had all their servers taken away every time a user uploaded something they shouldn't to Google drive?!?!? This is the type of terms and conditions most VPS have.
Thank you all for your time.
PS: I can happily live with spam and/or child-porn restrictions -- just hopefully don't want to be responsible for the actions of others!